| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 19:30 - Oct 11 with 3654 views | londonlisa2001 |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 19:20 - Oct 11 by Neath_Jack |
Nice.
I've brought my two daughters up on my own without their mother being about.
What does that make me or my kids? |
Personally I think it makes you a great role model and your daughters young women who will forever see men as people to be trusted, loved and cherished. |  | |  |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 19:31 - Oct 11 with 3647 views | Darran |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 19:30 - Oct 11 by londonlisa2001 |
Personally I think it makes you a great role model and your daughters young women who will forever see men as people to be trusted, loved and cherished. |
Yes I agree he's a very nice man. His mother likes me too. |  |
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| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 19:31 - Oct 11 with 3646 views | londonlisa2001 |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 19:29 - Oct 11 by Darran |
Don't be dull FFS one man in that situation is different to two men. We are talking about two gay men here stop twisting things. |
So it is the fact they're gay then.
Imagine my surprise. | | | |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 19:32 - Oct 11 with 3639 views | Garyjack |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 19:25 - Oct 11 by londonlisa2001 |
I agree. I just believe that both male and female role models (which are equally important) can be found within the extended family or close friends and godparents. It doesn't need to be a 'Mother and Father' and to suggest otherwise does a great disservice to legions of wonderful single parent families and gay parent families. |
I'm talking about children that are given up for adoption. Not single families, or gay parent families where you have a biological parent who is in a gay relationship.
You simply have to give an adopted child the best chance, and that best chance is to have a 'mother' as a role model. |  | | |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 19:34 - Oct 11 with 3629 views | Darran |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 19:31 - Oct 11 by londonlisa2001 |
So it is the fact they're gay then.
Imagine my surprise. |
No it's not. | |
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| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 19:38 - Oct 11 with 3622 views | exiledclaseboy |
This is going very well. |  |
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| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 19:38 - Oct 11 with 3621 views | londonlisa2001 |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 19:32 - Oct 11 by Garyjack |
I'm talking about children that are given up for adoption. Not single families, or gay parent families where you have a biological parent who is in a gay relationship.
You simply have to give an adopted child the best chance, and that best chance is to have a 'mother' as a role model. |
A child given up for adoption needs someone who will love them.
Full stop.
This case is horrific - so is every other case which involves alleged abuse, male, female, adopted, step parent, biological parent. | | | |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 19:41 - Oct 11 with 3614 views | Jackfath |
The poor child. If found guilty I hope he never sees the light of day again. |  |
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| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 19:43 - Oct 11 with 3602 views | Darran |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 19:41 - Oct 11 by Jackfath |
The poor child. If found guilty I hope he never sees the light of day again. |
Don't talk such utter nonsense Fath he'll be going in for rehabilitation and be out before he's 50.
(If found guilty of course) | |
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| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 19:46 - Oct 11 with 3593 views | Jackfath |
One must also question the person(s) who interviewed and put the couple through the adoption process and deemed them both to be suitable characters. They must be devastated right now. | |
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| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 20:31 - Oct 11 with 3574 views | Neath_Jack |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 19:27 - Oct 11 by Garyjack |
Hat's off to you Neathie, you should be very proud of you and your kids. However, i'm talking more about the adoption process and giving an adopted child the best chance. And my view is that any child that is given up for adoption should have a 'mother' as a role model. I'm pretty sure that's what Darran means as well. |
Nothing to be proud of Gar, i've only done what 99.9% of other fathers would do for their children.
I'm sorry but i can't agree with what you're saying, it makes no difference if its a single man, single woman, lesbian couple or gay men, it's about them as people, as parents, and role models, teaching them manners, right from wrong etc.
It's 2017 now, silly old fashioned notions need to be shelved, same as the stigma attached to mental health, same as people with tattoo's are going to eat your puppies and kittens, etc etc. It's all a load of outdated nonsense. |  |
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| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 20:32 - Oct 11 with 3573 views | Neath_Jack |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 19:29 - Oct 11 by Darran |
Don't be dull FFS one man in that situation is different to two men. We are talking about two gay men here stop twisting things. |
No difference if it's one man, two gay men, a lesbian, heterosexual... | |
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| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 22:18 - Oct 11 with 3533 views | Garyjack |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 20:31 - Oct 11 by Neath_Jack |
Nothing to be proud of Gar, i've only done what 99.9% of other fathers would do for their children.
I'm sorry but i can't agree with what you're saying, it makes no difference if its a single man, single woman, lesbian couple or gay men, it's about them as people, as parents, and role models, teaching them manners, right from wrong etc.
It's 2017 now, silly old fashioned notions need to be shelved, same as the stigma attached to mental health, same as people with tattoo's are going to eat your puppies and kittens, etc etc. It's all a load of outdated nonsense. |
Nope, 99.9% of fathers would not have done what you have, so it is something you should be very proud of.
However, i'll maintain my stance that an adopted child has the best chance of a good upbringing with a 'mother' as a role model. Preferably a hetrosexual couple. Always remembering of course that we are talking about an 18 month old little girl potentially murdered by her male adopted father.
I've tried googling it, and cannot find any instance in the UK, where a child has been given to a male/female couple for adoption and ended up dead. As i said, it's all about giving an adopted child the best opportunity in life. And to me, that best opportunity lies with having a mother figure. [Post edited 11 Oct 2017 22:19]
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| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 22:58 - Oct 11 with 3515 views | londonlisa2001 |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 22:18 - Oct 11 by Garyjack |
Nope, 99.9% of fathers would not have done what you have, so it is something you should be very proud of.
However, i'll maintain my stance that an adopted child has the best chance of a good upbringing with a 'mother' as a role model. Preferably a hetrosexual couple. Always remembering of course that we are talking about an 18 month old little girl potentially murdered by her male adopted father.
I've tried googling it, and cannot find any instance in the UK, where a child has been given to a male/female couple for adoption and ended up dead. As i said, it's all about giving an adopted child the best opportunity in life. And to me, that best opportunity lies with having a mother figure. [Post edited 11 Oct 2017 22:19]
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As in Darran's case, you get to the point in your argument where you have to admit that your problem is with gay people adopting.
Using this case to justify it, is frankly sick. If you want to use statistics on attacks, every available child should be adopted by a lesbian couple as there is far less chance of a woman killing a child as compared to a man. | | | |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 23:24 - Oct 11 with 3497 views | Garyjack |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 22:58 - Oct 11 by londonlisa2001 |
As in Darran's case, you get to the point in your argument where you have to admit that your problem is with gay people adopting.
Using this case to justify it, is frankly sick. If you want to use statistics on attacks, every available child should be adopted by a lesbian couple as there is far less chance of a woman killing a child as compared to a man. |
Put the wine bottle down love, no need to get upset when you've had a few. If you cannot accept that an adopted child would have a better chance of a normal upbringing with having a mother as a role model 'preferably in a hetrosexual relationship, then that's fine with me, your choice. But please don't call me sick for believing the opposite there's a good girl. Nothing to do with gays, lesbians, transexuals or whatever. Those are my beliefs, and if you think otherwise my dear, then quite frankly you have a little female screw loose! [Post edited 11 Oct 2017 23:25]
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| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 23:34 - Oct 11 with 3487 views | londonlisa2001 |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 23:24 - Oct 11 by Garyjack |
Put the wine bottle down love, no need to get upset when you've had a few. If you cannot accept that an adopted child would have a better chance of a normal upbringing with having a mother as a role model 'preferably in a hetrosexual relationship, then that's fine with me, your choice. But please don't call me sick for believing the opposite there's a good girl. Nothing to do with gays, lesbians, transexuals or whatever. Those are my beliefs, and if you think otherwise my dear, then quite frankly you have a little female screw loose! [Post edited 11 Oct 2017 23:25]
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Haven't had anything other than a Diet Coke.
I called you sick for equating this horrific case with an argument for or against adoption by a gay couple.
You said earlier in the thread that it was nothing to do with sexuality - it obviously is. You've repeated it again, in a post where you state that a heterosexual couple is preferable. So just admit it. It's an argument based on nothing but you not liking the idea of gay men adopting. Bringing statistics based on one horrific case into a discussion to justify it is abhorrent.
The vast majority, statistically, of incidence of child abuse is committed by a male family member. So let's remove all kids from families with male relatives shall we? Or does that argument only work for gay men?
A child has a damn sight better chance of a 'normal' upbringing with a parent or parents who love them. Rather than being left in the care of the State. | | | |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 17:16 - Nov 6 with 3199 views | whoflungdung |
I'm not really a fan of gay marriage. civil contracts yeah
I ve dealt with countless of assaults on kids over the years and 90% done by MALE on female /child. Man and woman can be a horrendous pair,both as cruel as each other
A kid looked after by two of the same sex will have a far better chance than that spawned by feckless feckwits .
and as for guilt, instead of inane internet trial ,I ll let a Jury decide | |
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| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 17:25 - Nov 6 with 3184 views | londonlisa2001 |
| Guilty or Not Guilty? on 17:16 - Nov 6 by whoflungdung |
I'm not really a fan of gay marriage. civil contracts yeah
I ve dealt with countless of assaults on kids over the years and 90% done by MALE on female /child. Man and woman can be a horrendous pair,both as cruel as each other
A kid looked after by two of the same sex will have a far better chance than that spawned by feckless feckwits .
and as for guilt, instead of inane internet trial ,I ll let a Jury decide |
He's been found guilty by a jury.
What that has to do with gay marriage God only knows. | | | |
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