| Paul Stewart 09:32 - Mar 22 with 726 views | onehunglow | Just watching this interview on Morning live.Hard watch a he is still clearly shattered from child sexual abuse. Have to say Gethin Jones ha been superb in this interview. |  |
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| Paul Stewart on 18:22 - Mar 23 with 596 views | onehunglow | and another special on abuse in football tonight at 22.45. Sickening and staggering |  |
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| Paul Stewart on 00:08 - Mar 24 with 538 views | Kilkennyjack | Sadly the mental abuse can be as damaging as the physical abuse. It needs sorting. |  |
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| Paul Stewart on 08:33 - Mar 24 with 524 views | onehunglow |
| Paul Stewart on 00:08 - Mar 24 by Kilkennyjack | Sadly the mental abuse can be as damaging as the physical abuse. It needs sorting. |
and lasts infinately longer. Crewe,Man City and Southampton truly shamed as is football in general David White looks horrendous. People need to watch this programme. Final one tonight. Watch it |  |
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| Paul Stewart on 08:12 - Mar 25 with 458 views | swan65split | Watched it last night, White and Stewart as players could look after themselves , very hard too watch, and could easily see the damage caused to both, that sadly will be with them for the rest of their lives . Hopefully both will get some sort of recovery as it looks like both really need it. |  | |  |
| Paul Stewart on 09:20 - Mar 25 with 437 views | lifelong | Watched the three programs over the past few evenings, truly shocking and, at times, difficult to watch. The effect these vile bastards have on their victims lasts a lifetime...horrendous. |  | |  |
| Paul Stewart on 09:38 - Mar 25 with 433 views | onehunglow |
| Paul Stewart on 09:20 - Mar 25 by lifelong | Watched the three programs over the past few evenings, truly shocking and, at times, difficult to watch. The effect these vile bastards have on their victims lasts a lifetime...horrendous. |
Yeah. It raises many questions about Dario Gradi although he was "cleared". It is incredible these rats held sway in clubs . Im not convinced many did not know what was going on. Bennell clearly shows little remorse |  |
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| Paul Stewart on 09:55 - Mar 25 with 426 views | Catullus |
| Paul Stewart on 09:20 - Mar 25 by lifelong | Watched the three programs over the past few evenings, truly shocking and, at times, difficult to watch. The effect these vile bastards have on their victims lasts a lifetime...horrendous. |
I watched part of one and couldn't watch any more. If that happened to my son and I found out I'd end up on a murder charge. Nothing gets me quite as angry as a child molester. I watched them talking about it and the pain was etched into their faces. Their eyes screamed help me please. It was too hard to keep looking at. |  |
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| Paul Stewart on 10:01 - Mar 25 with 424 views | onehunglow |
| Paul Stewart on 09:55 - Mar 25 by Catullus | I watched part of one and couldn't watch any more. If that happened to my son and I found out I'd end up on a murder charge. Nothing gets me quite as angry as a child molester. I watched them talking about it and the pain was etched into their faces. Their eyes screamed help me please. It was too hard to keep looking at. |
I am always mindful of unsubstantiated allegation of sex abuse. Those that are malicious stain a man for life.An allegation is enough to create suspicion and doubt . HOWEVER, Bennell clearly had been at it for years as were the others and the evidence was there. His sentence could be seen as substantial but he has effectively killed hundreds. Clearly ,many agencies to blame and I think time have much changed.They had to. A very good point was raised in that "children should be seen and not heard" was the mantra for society and families in the 50s 60s 70s and indeed into the 80s. I remember little else from my family elders. |  |
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| Paul Stewart on 10:16 - Mar 25 with 420 views | Catullus |
| Paul Stewart on 10:01 - Mar 25 by onehunglow | I am always mindful of unsubstantiated allegation of sex abuse. Those that are malicious stain a man for life.An allegation is enough to create suspicion and doubt . HOWEVER, Bennell clearly had been at it for years as were the others and the evidence was there. His sentence could be seen as substantial but he has effectively killed hundreds. Clearly ,many agencies to blame and I think time have much changed.They had to. A very good point was raised in that "children should be seen and not heard" was the mantra for society and families in the 50s 60s 70s and indeed into the 80s. I remember little else from my family elders. |
Seen and not heard was part of my childhood too but the difference for me was my parents were rarely around, I was raised mostly by my gran and she believed in seen and not heard, as in don't be naughty. However, if I went to her with a problem she listened to me. We have had many comversations with our son and we always reinforce that if there is an issue, if something serious happens he needs to tell us, whatever it is. Then something did happen, he didn't tell us for months and we only found out when a parent down the school reported it which ended up with the police being involved and another adult being spoken to for bullying my son. Now he tells us everything, and we listen. |  |
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| Paul Stewart on 10:21 - Mar 25 with 419 views | onehunglow |
| Paul Stewart on 10:16 - Mar 25 by Catullus | Seen and not heard was part of my childhood too but the difference for me was my parents were rarely around, I was raised mostly by my gran and she believed in seen and not heard, as in don't be naughty. However, if I went to her with a problem she listened to me. We have had many comversations with our son and we always reinforce that if there is an issue, if something serious happens he needs to tell us, whatever it is. Then something did happen, he didn't tell us for months and we only found out when a parent down the school reported it which ended up with the police being involved and another adult being spoken to for bullying my son. Now he tells us everything, and we listen. |
Clearly you are great parents and your kids are lucky. Our lad's scout master was jailed for sex assaults whilst he took a group camping,although not when our lad went with him. We were mortified but he said nothing untoward occurred. He was married with grown up kids too. My wife knew his wife and so it was a real shock. It's true many secrets are kept in many lives. Mankind is devious |  |
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| Paul Stewart on 10:45 - Mar 25 with 407 views | Catullus |
| Paul Stewart on 10:21 - Mar 25 by onehunglow | Clearly you are great parents and your kids are lucky. Our lad's scout master was jailed for sex assaults whilst he took a group camping,although not when our lad went with him. We were mortified but he said nothing untoward occurred. He was married with grown up kids too. My wife knew his wife and so it was a real shock. It's true many secrets are kept in many lives. Mankind is devious |
I don't know about great but we try. If my parents taught me anything it was what NOT to do! Yes, very many secrets in many lives and all too often secrets help perverts like Bennell. |  |
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